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Anniversary Aversion: Wife Drives Off A Ramp To Skirt 10-Year Celebration?

“Don’t get mad” were the first words that came out of her mouth when I called in response to her “Please call me” text. It happened yesterday. For the good part of the afternoon, I was preparing for our 10-year wedding anniversary. Reservations were made at The Inn Of The Seventh Ray (considered to be […] Read More

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5 Relationship Tips For A Bored Husband

It’s Monday morning. You get settled into your car to head off to work (where you have a forty minute commute ahead of you) and you think to yourself, “Man I wish it were Friday. I’m not ready to start the week right now.” Reluctant, stressed, and full of anxiety, you start your week the […] Read More

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Finally, An Excuse To Be Thankful

Giving thanks … You would think that’s something people should celebrate every day. No, not in the flimsy after thought kind of way. I mean really celebrate, just like we do on Thanksgiving Day – minus the turkey, football, and the Macy’s Day parade (that just wouldn’t be practical.) But the real act of giving […] Read More

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Polygamist Husband Dubbed “A Genius” By Monogamist

Polygamy is taboo for most of the Western world. Yet, I have always found it fascinating that a man can maintain a working marriage with more than one woman. Heck, most of us have trouble with one wife, but if the guy is up to the task, I’m not quite sure I understand why polygamy […] Read More

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A Love-Hate Relationship With Romance

It hasn’t yet occurred to me why I cringe whenever a woman uses the phrase, “That’s so romantic.” Yes. This includes my wife. But it’s probably because I don’t feel comfortable with how others define and relate to romance. It also might have to do with how I perceive my own masculinity. (Now we’re getting […] Read More

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Forget about love, I’d rather have trust

Love is a word that gets abused over and over. (I actually feel bad for it – it should really stand up for itself.) Trust is a word that is direct and straightforward. It’s not as abstract and less prone to being misunderstood or misinterpreted. That’s why I appreciate it more. Not just as a […] Read More

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When The Benefits Of Teamwork Really Start To Shine

Over the weekend, my wife and I hosted a birthday party for a friend of ours. We ate, drank, laughed, played games and had tons of fun. We had so much fun that we received a noise complaint at around 10 pm that night. But who cares? It was worth it. My wife had been […] Read More

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3 Things To Watch Out For When Stuck In An Argument

There is so much crap on the Internet about how to handle an argument with your wife. General advice like “show empathy” and “communicate effectively.” I read one article that said you should “open your heart and be flexible.” That’s like you being caught in the middle of a bar fight, while your friend screams, […] Read More

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Overdosing On Sex

About 2,000 years ago, the classic text on Chinese medicine called Su Nu Jing outlined the certain amount of ejaculations a man should have according to his age and health. Just in case you’re wondering, here’s what it says: Age Good health Average Health Minimum 20 2x Day 1X Day Every 4 days 30 1x […] Read More

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What Does This Guy Have That I Don’t?

Some men are good with money. Others have a way with words. Some have the ability to make you bust a gut in laughter. Each man has his own strengths. For instance, I enjoy writing. I’m okay at it. But I can’t bench press 400 lbs. of iron. Granted I’ve never tried, but I’ll have […] Read More

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Defining Your Relationship Style

We all have unique ways of how we do things. How we dress. The way we speak. Write. How we manage. Two managers will have two completely different ways of handling people. One might take a more passive approach by choosing to lead and inspire – the other prefers to use fear and force. Neither […] Read More

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Masturbating Into A Ziploc Bag

Last Saturday my wife and I went to get some advice from a holistic doctor because we’re ready to have a child. But the recommendation that this particular person gave us threw my wife and I for a loop. At first, I thought he was pulling my chain – but he was dead serious. He […] Read More

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If you can’t get your wife to do this, you’re screwed …

I try to get my wife to do this at least once a day. It’s a super quick way for me to reconnect with her … and it feels really good. In terms of priority, I put it way on top of the list. That’s how important I think it is for my marriage, and […] Read More

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Are you good enough?

If you’ve ever felt discouraged, confused or just outright defeated in your marriage, welcome to the club. Most married men have – including yours truly. These are normal feeling when things don’t go the way we expect - when our failures and shortcomings turn into disappointment and pain.  But of all of the negatively charged […] Read More

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How to spot this dirty little parasite in your marriage

Over the course of nearly every marriage, there’s a parasite that tries to burrow its way into the relationship. It’s relentlessly in search for a new host. Some couples become hosts, but simply don’t care enough to do anything about it. Others will find out and immediately take action to rid them of it. And […] Read More

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What Kind Of Husband Will You Be This Week?

Every day our emotions take us on a roller coaster ride that can define the type of husbands we will be, if we let them. From happiness to sadness. Anger to joy. Frustration to a sense a fulfillment. From hope to utter desperation. Our emotions have a tendency to guide our behavior. To determine how […] Read More

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Part 2: Mo money mo problems, or no money more problems?

In a previous article, I promised that I’d share with you a financial management method that would make your life simpler, more effective and more fulfilling. I personally discovered it when I read T. Harv Ecker’s Secrets of a Millionaire Mind. Back in 2010 when my wife and I began using it, it changed the […] Read More

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Part 1: Mo money mo problems, or no money more problems?

If there’s one thing you can do to protect your marriage today, it ‘s this … resolve NOT to let money get in between you and your wife. Whether it’s too much money, or too little. That’s easier said than done of course. But numerous studies show that money is consistently one of the most […] Read More

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How To Cheat On Your Wife … With Her Absolute Blessing

On a Tuesday afternoon in downtown Los Angeles, she waltzed out of a building lobby on 6th Street. Her beautiful brown hair and infectious smile had floored me. It was exhilarating. I wanted her. I had to have her. And despite the fact that she was well out of my league … I decided that […] Read More

“If My Wife Wears The Pants In The Relationship, Am I Wearing The Skirt?” thumbnail

“If My Wife Wears The Pants In The Relationship, Am I Wearing The Skirt?”

Lodged deep within the crevices of most marriages, there’s an internal power struggle that exists. What causes this power struggle are things like money, personality mixes, competition, and arbitrary expectations of “who will do what” within the context of the marriage – to name a few. To better understand how this grab for power operates […] Read More

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